My husband Tom went out with a friend after a family vacation, leaving me to take care of our children and luggage by myself. This highlighted a pattern of neglect in our relationship and was the final straw for me.
I let him handle the mayhem during his poker night in order to discipline him. Tom became aware of the difficulties I faced on a daily basis when I returned home to a disorganized home and an overburdened him.
He expressed regret and started to assume greater responsibility, getting more involved with the children and our family life. Tom handled everything flawlessly during a subsequent family vacation months later, highlighting the value of cooperation and communication.
In retrospect, the airport incident turned out to be a blessing in disguise, strengthening our relationship in the end.